Molly and Nathan’s Wedding

June 29th, 2009 by Lindsay

I had the pleasure of meeting Molly and Nathan last winter when they hired me to help plan their June wedding.  They were such a great couple to work with and I really enjoyed meeting their families at the wedding as well.  Molly’s taste was very modern and sophisticated and I had so much fun with her as we designed her stylish wedding.

One thing I learned after this wedding was the importance of a rain plan - especially in June in Colorado!  We had a beautiful site at Red Rocks Country Club with perfect weather right up until ceremony time.  At that point the rain moved in along with some tornado warnings, so we were forced to move everything inside for Plan B.  The staff on site did such a great job transitioning everything inside within minutes, so the show went on!  Here are a few pictures, courtesy of our photographer Jeanine Thurston from Fototails Photography.

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Cheneile and Onn’s Wedding

June 27th, 2009 by Lindsay

Cheneile and Onn found me on the Knot website and I’m so glad I had the opportunity to not only work with them on their wedding, but to get to know them and their families.  Their wedding took place at the beautiful Four Mile Historic Park in Denver, CO.  Below are some pictures that were taken by Brooke Trexler Photography, who also photographed Jessica and Grant’s wedding last summer in Sedalia.  More to come!

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It’s wedding season!

June 24th, 2009 by Lindsay

Wow, I can’t believe how time flies when you’re busy planning weddings!  I’ve had so much fun working over the past months on my summer weddings, and I’m glad to finally have a chance to post some of the pictures and things I’ve learned along the way.  Stay tuned!

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Wedding invitations - Decadent Designs

January 13th, 2009 by Lindsay

I discovered this designer by browsing through etsy.com and I think she offers some beautiful and affordable designs for the modern bride.  Check out their site on etsy, as well as the official website.

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Happy New Year!

January 5th, 2009 by Lindsay

Wow - it’s been a crazy season but the holiday’s are finally over and it’s back to the real world.  I know I haven’t been great at posting lately but I suppose that’s what new year resolutions are for!

Speaking of resolutions, I’m sure I’m not the only one feeling a little ‘heavier’ after the holidays, and for those of you that just got engaged or are getting married soon, I get a lot of questions about how to lose those last few pounds before the big day.  I’m not one to give advice on working out….but you may want to join me tomorrow night and tune in to the Style Network for a show about this very subject.

As it was sent to me by TheKnot.com, here is the info:

WHO: WeddingChannel.com nutritionist Cindy Whitmarsh
WHAT: STYLE NETWORK’S FAT FREE FIANCÉS SPECIAL
WHEN: Tuesday, January 6th, 9:00 PM EST

Everyone wants to look fabulous and fit on their wedding day, so WeddingChannel.com teamed up with Style Network’s new special Fat Free Fiancés to help two pairs of lovebirds tone up! Tune in to see how one couple, with a combined weight of more than 500 pounds, gets in shape with help from WeddingChannel.com nutritionist Cindy Whitmarsh.

I don’t know what to expect, but I’m going to add this to my Tivo and see how it goes!

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Trimming the wedding guest list

December 10th, 2008 by Lindsay

I often get questions from brides who are looking to either cut down their guest list, or determine how many people will actually show up to the wedding.  Here is some advice I gave one of my recent clients, and hopefully it will help you as well!

The typical rule of thumb is that about 75% of your total invites will attend…however, that doesn’t really take into consideration how many people you have that are out of town vs. local. I would suggest doing a couple of things with the invite list to try and narrow it down.

First, separate people into ‘local’ and ‘out-of-town’. I would estimate that 80-85% of your local guests will attend, especially if you send the save-the-dates and then send invitations out about 8 weeks in advance.

For the out-of-towner’s, go through and decide how many of them you think will actually make it - family is more likely to make the trip than friends, so you can maybe determine that only 50% may actually make it.

Another good thing to do is go through the list quickly and do a gut reaction of ‘A’ list or ‘B’ list - you can always start by sending invitations to the A list first, and as you get people declining, replace them with somebody on the ‘B’ list.

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Holiday party on a budget

December 6th, 2008 by Lindsay

I was recently interviewed by The Rocky Mountain News on ideas for throwing a holiday party while keeping your budget in check.  Here is a copy of the article.  I hope some of you get some good inspiration from this and don’t let the economy keep you from celebrating the holidays with friends and family!

How to throw a bargain bash

Spread holiday cheer without breaking the bank

Published December 5, 2008 at 4:59 p.m.
Updated December 5, 2008 at 4:59 p.m.

Logic has it, if people are cutting back on things deemed dispensable this year, then the holiday revelry went out with 2007. But who said logic has anything to do with merrymaking?

“It’s actually a great excuse to have a party, to just hang out with your friends and celebrate the season,” said Lindsay Horning, founder and event coordinator of Bliss Events in Denver, referring to times of economic unrest.

But while the parties should go on, Horning and fellow metro-area event planners agree, that doesn’t mean the people who step up to the hosting task this season should risk financial ruin.

Here are the best tips for reining in holiday-party costs from Horning; Kimberly Kee, owner of Party Stylings, Castle Rock; and Jennifer Lyn Miller, owner of Events by Jennifer Lyn, Denver:

DECOR

* Use food.

Food can serve multiple purposes; it can garnish, decorate and feed. One example, Kee said: Fill some vases with pomegranates and make your signature drink a pomegranate martini.

* Stay focused.

If you don’t have boxes of decorations, focus on three main areas, Horning said: the front porch and entryway; the bathroom that guests will use; and the food and drink area.

* Combine nature, inexpensive decor and creativity.

Horning’s suggestions:

Gather twigs from your yard, spray-paint them, tie a red bow around them and hang them on your door. In the bathroom, use candles and small decorations for a cozy feel. For the food area, wrap empty boxes or old yellow-pages books to create faux gifts. Fill vases with colorful bulb ornaments.

Miller’s suggestions:

Use those poinsettias that friends give you as centerpiece decor. Buy inexpensive candle pillars and dress them up. Use the pillars on your table, staggering heights and varying candle colors. Strategically place ornaments around them. Gather evergreen boughs and pine cones to dress up empty spaces.

Kee’s suggestions:

Wow your guests with your buffet table.

Create different heights using anything that works - paint cans, yellow pages, boxes. Place these atop your linen-covered table. Drape scraps of fabric that accent your tablecloth over the cans and boxes, and tuck them around the bases. (Find these scraps in the fabric-store clearance bin.) For example, if your bottom cloth is blue, you might buy silver fabric scraps. Then you could use silver and blue ornaments for a holiday accent.

DRINKS

* Ditch the full bar.

All three party planners agreed on one thing: Forget the budget-busting full bar. Instead, stick with wine and beer, and serve one signature drink. For instance: Serve a pitcher of margaritas with a Mexican buffet or glasses of sparkling wine mixed with cranberry juice for a festive holiday brunch.

* Can the cans.

Don’t stock a mountain of canned sodas and bottled teas for nonalcoholic beverages. That’s both pricey and wasteful, Kee said. A cheaper, greener and more fun alternative? Serve a mocktail. Kee’s favorite: Mix equal parts Ocean Spray white cranberry peach with club soda. Dress it up with orange slices or berries. Next to this peachy concoction, set varied flavors of infused vodkas for self- serve cocktail-mixing.

* Make it a wine-tasting.

Share your menu with your guests and ask them to bring a wine that pairs with one of the foods, Miller said. Or go with the recession theme and challenge everyone to bring a good wine for less than $10, Horning said. “That way, drinks are provided and everybody gets to try some new wines.”

DETAILS

* Invitations:

For truly cost-effective, use evite.com. The invitations are free and convenient. But the party gals said buying invitation programs at the local craft store is better. It’s inexpensive, easy and makes a statement, Kee said. “I love paper invitations. It’s a lost piece of etiquette.”

* Music:

When cutting corners, live music is the first to go, the party experts agreed. But for a holiday party, set a holiday channel on your satellite radio, load Christmas CDs into your disc player or create a festive play list on your iPod. Horning’s secret: Check out holiday CDs from your local library.

* Party favors:

Party favors can be costly, but they’re a nice touch, the planners say. A small cellophane bag of cookies and a ribbon tie, are fine, Miller said. Kee suggests having an ornament-making table, with inexpensive glass bulbs and assorted decor from the craft store. Let guests make their own party favors. Before they leave, wrap them in tissue paper and put them in a little bag. “Every year, they’ll have this ornament to remember your party by.”

FOOD

* Trim your list.

“Invite only those you are closest to,” Kee said. Sure, it’s hard to do, but leaving 10 people off your list can dramatically reduce your tab.

* Choose off-hours.

If you throw a party during dinner hour, guests will expect a meal, which is too costly when penny-pinching. Instead, have a cocktail party at 4 p.m. or a dessert party (all the rage now) at 8 p.m.

* Ditch the plates.

Just use cocktail napkins and serve finger foods, Horning said. When guests are unable to load up plates, they eat and waste less. Plus, bite-size foods make the table look fuller and classier.

* Cook from scratch.

“If you’re having a small holiday party, homemade is always going to be more cost-effective,” Miller said. No clue what to do? Check the Food Network (her favorite) or Martha Stewart Web sites, Miller said (foodnetwork.com, marthastewart.com).

* Buy baguettes.

Doing it yourself doesn’t mean you have to splurge on fancy crab and shrimp hors d’oeuvres. Try crostinis, toasted baguette slices that you top however you like. “They’re easy and chic right now,” Horning said, and you can choose toppings to fit your budget. (See Kee’s crostini recipe suggestions in side box).

* Think seasonal.

Plan your full menu before shopping, incorporating lots of seasonal foods (turkey, ham, cranberries, pumpkin, squash), which are generally cheaper. Go ahead and buy the $10 turkey, use some in a pastry appetizer and save the rest for a family meal.

* Get double-duty out of your foods.

Plan your menu so that the dishes include like ingredients, Kee said, using cranberries as an example: Use the seasonal berries to 1) garnish platters, 2) make a homemade relish for a cheese-and-cracker tray, 3) accent a puff pastry with goat cheese and walnuts and 4) top off a highlighted cocktail.

* Forget potluck mayhem.

Although having guests bring food is less sophisticated, it can spread the cost. Don’t, however, flirt with party disaster by having an open potluck. Be specific on what each guest should bring. Or take Kee’s even safer route:

“What I would do instead is, reach out to four or five of my ‘Martha’ friends that I knew did interesting things in the kitchen.”

Making crostinis

From Kimberly Kee and her Party Stylings’ chef:

* Get a variety of baguettes, white, whole wheat, etc.

* Slice into thin rounds.

* Brush with olive oil and salt and pepper.

* Toast in oven. (Can do this two days in advance.)

Three chef suggestions:

1. Smear borson cheese (a garlicky, herb, creamy cheese) on crostini. Top with sauteed artichoke hearts (not marinated).

2. Mix chopped tomatoes, onions, garlic, fresh herbs and spread on crostini. Simmer balsamic vinegar until it reduces down into a thick syrup. Drizzle syrup over tomato topping.

3. Spread blue cheese atop crostini. Place a walnut half on top. Drizzle with warm honey.

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Bliss Events in the Rocky Mountain News!

December 1st, 2008 by Lindsay

Check out the Rocky Mountain News - Home Front cover this Saturday, December 6.  I’ve offered up some cost saving tips and ideas for hosting a holiday party in the down economy.  If you catch it, please let me know what you think and if you have any of your own tips and ideas that you’d like to share.  Happy Holidays!

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Wedding Cakes

November 23rd, 2008 by Lindsay

I’ve been getting a lot of questions on how to have a beautiful and unique wedding cake on a budget.  The good news is that It’s actually pretty easy to save money on your wedding cake without sacrificing style!

First off, you should know the basics of how bakers are going to price out your cake.  It’s typical for bakers to charge by the slice, and on average the price per slice can run from $3.50-$4.50.  Make sure you get some comparison quotes for your area - the price is much higher for those of you living in New York City vs. a smaller town so you should be prepared for what to expect.

Consider the amount of cake you actually need to order.  Will you be serving separate desserts during the reception?  If so, you may not need to plan for a piece of cake for every guest.  I would suggest taking your overall headcount and reducing it by about 25% to cut down on the number of pieces you need, thus saving money on the overall cost.

One thing that MANY brides do is to buy a smaller version of the wedding cake to be used for presentation and cake cutting, and then having a cheaper sheet cake in the back.  Many caterers or reception sites can easily take the cake discreetly into the back after the cake-cutting ceremony and then serve slices of the sheet cake to guests.  This saves a lot of money and your guests won’t know that their individual slice didn’t come from the original cake.

You don’t need to spend a lot of money on a cake topper either - use flowers or ribbon to create a beautiful design, like the one I’ve shown below.

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Unfortunate wedding scam

November 14th, 2008 by Lindsay

I recently uncovered a fraud scam that will undoubtedly reach many other event planners, and in an effort to stop this before it gets too far I want to make this public.

I received an email through my listing as a vendor on a popular wedding site from a bride in Germany. She was looking for a wedding planner to help with their wedding in February 2009. After countless emails back and forth, we agreed upon a fee and she sent me a cashier’s check for my deposit, plus additional funds to pay for vendor deposits. One of the vendors they wanted to book was a band out of the Benin Republic called Coupe de Band. I had already started to feel as though something was not right once she agreed to my fee without any question, so I had already begun to do some research on this band.

I came across another event planner’s blog that indicated she had received a similar email, and had about 60 comments from other planners who had gotten the same email. The scam is that you pay this band the deposit they request from the funds sent to you via the client - however, the cashier’s check is fraudulent and now you’re out your own money.

Thankfully I caught this in plenty of time and am able to use the check and associated emails as evidence in the report I’ve filed with the authorities. I hope that by posting this it will save other planners from getting caught in this scam.

Here is a copy of the original email I received from ‘London Baileys’:

Hello,
How are you doing? hope great!
My name is London Baileys, from Enfield in middlesex UK (England ). I will be coming to Denver, CO.
after my shopping trip with my fiancee who’s French by nature to start his new work with the Coca-cola. in northen america. And just before then we will be getting married on the 21st of feb,2009. We need a good wedding planner to take care of our wedding both reception and ceremony. We require the best for the best memories for we & our children in future and as a matter of fact we have budgeted 25000$ for this special event.
Also, the ceremony and reception event will be taking place in a location and we are expecting at most 50 guests on the day of our occassion because most of our families in Europe and in the United Kingdom will be present for the occassion.
Also, we would like you to know the reception and ceremony will be taking place @ 1 location which the ceremony event would be in a garden location or outdoor while the reception takes place indoors, we are still about to make reservation though but we are making progress with that.

Please let us know if you’re able to help.

Sincerely
London
+447031980977

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